Diary of a Different Culture for a Day
By Nicole Farid – LIC Board Member
The Shock of Experiencing a Different Culture
Imagine waking up one morning, finding yourself in a foreign country, surrounded by a new family, with no knowledge of their cultural norms. How would you react? You wouldn’t know how to behave, what to say, or what actions might be respectful, or offensive.
Culture: Fate or Choice?
None of us chooses where we are born. Whether fate or science, our birthplace largely shapes our cultural “norms.” But can we really say what’s right or wrong about them? Why not embrace elements from other cultures, appreciating that if we had been born elsewhere, those customs would be ours too?
Living the “British Norm” in London
Growing up in London, I’ve absorbed traditions like saying “please” and “thank you,” smiling at passersby, and always carrying an umbrella just in case. An afternoon cup of tea, fish and chips with vinegar, and the fast-paced, slightly stressful commute through bustling streets are all part of everyday life here.
The Beauty of Contrast: Imagine a Morning in Kyoto, Japan
Now imagine waking up in Kyoto, Japan, with a calm scent of cherry blossoms and delicate calligraphy on the walls. The experience is worlds apart from London’s hustle and brings a sense of peace just by being there. Though the day starts at 7 am in both places, the mindset is transformed simply by the location and lifestyle.
Simple Actions, Profound Changes
A sip of green tea and a traditional Japanese breakfast not only feels healthier but provides a calming contrast to the usual grab-and-go coffee and croissant routine back in London.
Spirituality in Daily Life: A Morning at the Shrine
In Kyoto, I wear Geta sandals and visit a local shrine, bowing at the entrance alongside others. Spirituality is a valued part of their daily life, beginning each day with meditation and hope. In London, spirituality feels less integrated into daily routines—could this difference impact our stress levels?
Contrasting Mindsets in Crowded Spaces
London’s crowded Tube, the race against time, and the “rat race” routine can leave little room for spiritual moments. Yet, London’s bustling life has its charm, with rich cultural diversity and unique energy.
Experiencing the Opposite Perspective
For someone from Kyoto, London’s modern-meets-historic cityscape, cuisine variety, and unique weather would all be a new and thrilling experience. With over 20 million tourists a year, London offers an exciting contrast to many cultures.
Finding Common Ground in Diversity
Waking up in a different culture can be disorienting yet rewarding. It’s easy to judge others based on our biases, but remember, if you were born in their shoes, you might see the world as they do.
Walking in Another’s Shoes: Practicing Cultural Acceptance
Next time you feel inclined to judge, try imagining life in someone else’s culture. Embrace the beauty of diversity by considering what a day might look like in their shoes.
